Kid Expat Challenges

It is that time of year in the Northern hemisphere. Back to school means a new city, new school and new friends for many globetrotting families. It is tough for parents but kids also - at almost any age -  are going to need time to adjust. The rule of thumb is it takes at least six months for children to adjust and start settling in.

It is important to check in with kids and give them opportunities to express their concerns, fears and frustrations ahead of the move and during the initial period, parents say.

One parent suggested allowing the kids input wherever you can - say by asking what they like and don’t about neighbourhoods or houses when a realtor shows you around. Another suggested making a list of things they want to do in the new place.

Others recommend to be sure to emphasise the fun side of this opportunity, “Best part is introducing your kids to new animals, food, and friends.”

Try to foster a responsive, rather than reactive approach to coping with changes associated with a major move, teens and young adults can learn how to achieve clarity while navigating the inevitable obstacles of life. Help your child build resilience may really help manage this transition.

Be accepting of grieving. Your child may go through stages of grieving behaviour as they try to navigate a new country, house, school, teachers, friends. Most of all, listen to their concerns, show you understand and try and focus on positives.